WHO THIS IS FOR:
Couples going through infertility treatments
When you start infertility treatments you lose all control. Control of your body, mind, and schedule. For a long while this included travel however I bring to you a few full proof tips for taking back some control through travel. I hope these tips and tricks help bring a little bit of control back in your life and a bit of liberation.
Since January I have had 3 procedures, I have travelled out-of-state three times. I am leaving on a jet plane tonight and have another procedure a week from today. I also have a girls weekend planned in May. I am proof this is feasible!
WHEN TO SCHEDULE TRIPS
I am not talking big 2 week trips here. While we do have one planned for later in the year, if you do not want to delay treatment, big trips may be out of the picture for a bit. Three day trips are completely feasible.
- Find out when your doctor does transfers.
- My doctor does transfers on Thursdays. I schedule trips on Fridays if I know a transfer is in the works. I schedule trips after transfers Friday evenings through Mondays. With this schedule I do not have to worry about pushing myself too hard.
- Give yourself wiggle room
- Schedule 2 or so weeks in advanced, do not get ahead of yourself and do months ahead of time unless you are okay with potentially delaying a round.
- Know your cycle
- Once you get into the groove of treatments you tend to figure out when you will get your period, how many days on meds before transfer, etc. Use this knowledge to your advantage.
TRAVELING WITH MEDS
I traveled in February with ALL of my shots and here is what I learned, TSA could care less about having a bag full of needles. I took a ton of precautions and none of it mattered. BUT to be safe, here is what you need to do to travel with meds:
- Make a list of all of your meds days in advanced so that you don’t have to worry and stress. Check them off the night before when you pack. Recheck the next morning.
- Have your doctor write you a note stating its okay you have needles.
- Tell the TSA agent you have medication.
- PRE PLAN! Go through what you have days in advanced so that if you need refills while you are away, you have them taken care of beforehand.
- Put all of your meds in your carry on. You don’t want to leave the fate of your meds up to airline staff.
SCHEDULING YOUR PROCEDURES
If you are in my boat you presume you are having transfers for ever and ever. Thus, I know the drill at this point.
How to prep:
- Tell your doctor your dates in advanced. Write to him/her in email to verify. Have coordinators verify. Stay on top of this.
- If you are doing a transfer it may be as simple as just moving your check in appointments
- For example my doctor likes to do lining check-ins on Fridays, instead I have moved them to Thursdays, no one seems to care.
- You can manipulate your period if need be.
- If things need to be delayed a week, this may be feasible. Of course consult your doctor. Last year I knew there was no way I could do a transfer when my body wanted, we were able to push things off by a week and it all worked out (the procedure happened… of course I didn’t get pregnant).
HOW TO PAY FOR YOUR TRIP
Let’s be real, you are not swimming in cash because well… you are reading this blog.
- Sign up for a credit card with rewards (specifically travel)
- We have a Southwest card, it has been awesome
- Charge all of your IVF expenses to your account, before you know it you will have a ton of points- turn this lemon into lemonade
- IVF has paid for 6 round trip tickets and counting
I can’t live your life thinking, “when I am pregnant.” It was a hard pill to swallow but the reality of it is I may never get there and so I must live my life with the understanding that I can’t plan to be pregnant. I do know that I will be a mom, but that may not happen from my own body. And thus, living life as if it were “normal” is all I can do.